How to Differ Feelings? Kinds of Feelings from Heart

We all have feelings, and they are important. Feelings are like wealth. Both feelings and wealth have to be managed well. If you get carried away by your wealth, it will ruin you. This is also true of your feelings.

Feelings are our spontaneous responses to what happens around us and to what people say and do to us. Feelings are of two kinds – positive and negative. Gratitude, Love, Joy, Patience, and Goodwill are positive feelings, which we must develop to our advantage. If we do not, negative feelings such as anger, irritation, grievances and jealousy will control us. Have you ever seen someone in a temper or throwing a tantrum? How unpleasant and unreasonable he or she becomes!

Positive feelings, especially when expressed, make you and other s feel good. Negative feelings hurt and alienate. Uncontrolled feelings can get you into trouble. They bring out only the worst in you. It is no longer your true self that speaks or acts and, later, you regret the hurtful things you said and did.

Suppose someone irritates you, You can either do it back or overlook his behavior. Which of the two reactions, do you think, is to your advantage?